The price we're all secretly paying.

EP 34 | Not for UFOs + The 10 Steps of Making Up with Your Mom

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Video on Beauty Work that Caroline mentions!
   • Why I stopped doing BEAUTY WORK.  

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As usual, a compliment turns into a larger conversation about coveting hotness and beauty standards, as Jess and Caroline agree that the only thing they (or any of us) really care about is sex and attraction. But is beauty work a lie, or is it simply a way to masquerade in an identity they haven't historically aligned with?


This breakdown of identity turns into a reflection on how people talk about themselves - basically, what all of our dating profiles would say if they were actually true. We chat about our best and worst qualities when it comes to romantic relationships, Jess describes why ice has become her love language, and Caroline finds herself relating to monkeys, bison, and...yep we're on cats again.


Urgent news announcement! Lizzo posted about UFOs and we're wondering what it means for us. Plus, foot stuff, and the tenuous process of reconciling with your mom. Just be chill; it's not an apology..

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Contents of this Video
00:00 - Intro
00:28 - let's be honest...
3:50 - i have to do this forever until i die?
6:47 - a bad confession.
10:30 - the secret beauty system.
13:15 - the branding of beauty work.
16:35 - who is beautiful, who is not.
18:15 - identities that shape our life
26:00 - your BRUTALLY HONEST dating profile
29:05 - a fun challenge for your boyfriend
32:10 - the stupidest TO DO list
35:52 - butt lasering
40:20 - sexy animals
44:00 - UFOs!!!
50:53 - tips for fighting with your mom...
59:30 - dealing with family tension
1:05:45 - big pet peeve
1:09:00 - caroline's therapist...





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All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or mental health professionals, or really professional of any kind. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!


Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA


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