WHY No One CARES If Your Ex Is a Narcissist (Divorce Reality)

Divorce is emotional—but the legal process is not.
And that disconnect is where many people get hurt financially.

In this video, I break down a hard truth most people don’t hear early enough:
👉 Calling your spouse a narcissist or focusing on their bad behavior does not get you more money, more assets, or the marital home in a divorce.

I explain what marriage and divorce actually are from a legal and financial standpoint, why divorce is a distribution of assets—not emotional justice, and how misunderstandings around the marital home, equity, and mortgages can lead to unnecessary court battles and massive legal fees.

I also share a real client story involving a $500,000 home, $400,000 in equity, and the belief that bad behavior should force a sale—plus what the law actually allows and why taking an unnecessary stand often hurts you more than your spouse.

This video is especially important if you are:
• Going through divorce and confused about who gets the house
• Believing cheating or emotional abuse will change asset division
• Struggling with anger, resentment, or wanting the process to feel “fair”
• Trying to decide whether to sell, refinance, or negotiate equity
• Afraid of making an expensive mistake during divorce

I walk through:
• What divorce really is (and what it’s not)
• Why courts don’t divide assets based on behavior or personality
• The difference between equity and ownership of the home
• How fighting over the house can drain thousands from the marital estate
• Why peace and financial clarity are often the smartest outcomes

If you’re navigating divorce and want to protect your financial future—especially when it comes to the marital home—this conversation matters.

📌 Important: This video is for educational purposes only. I am not an attorney, and this is not legal advice. Divorce laws vary by state, so always consult a qualified family law attorney or mediator in your state.

If this video helped you, please like, subscribe, and leave a comment—I read and respond personally. And if you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed about the house, clarity is possible.

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