"Be UN-F*ck-Withable" 24 Ways to BREAK Your Nice Girl Habits & Finally Command Respect | April Mason

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Do you ever find yourself playing small, biting your tongue, or bending over backwards just to earn someone’s respect—wondering if you’re going to have to keep giving up your sanity and softness to get ahead?

But the reality is, so many of us incredible, ambitious women STILL feel like we’re stuck in a never-ending cycle of anxiety, self-doubt, and settling for breadcrumbs—in our careers, relationships, and even with ourselves.

Here’s the good news though—on this episode of Women of Impact, we’re tossing that tired old “be less, ask for less, settle for less” rulebook OUT THE DOOR. I’m going deep with femininity coach and relationship strategist, April Mason to uncover exactly how you can own your worth, command respect, AND maintain your warmth, authenticity, and feminine power.

So get ready to finally put yourself first, to stop negotiating your value, and to feel more confident—at home, at work, and in every relationship!

With April’s radically honest advice and lived experience, you’ll finally have the permission, clarity, and step-by-step tools to break out of “pick me” energy, ditch the shame spirals, and reclaim your nervous system—without losing the beautiful parts of who you are!

We dig deep into:
How to draw healthy boundaries and say “no” without losing your dignity or starting World War III
Spotting the difference between fear and intuition—and why your triggers hold the key to healing
Learning to respect YOURSELF first (even if you were never taught how!)
Why self-validation and putting yourself first are the secret to never settling again
Powerful daily practices to reconnect with your authenticity, individuality, and self-worth, no matter what anyone else thinks
The truth about what makes a woman “magnetic,” how to cultivate confidence and charisma, and why you NEVER need to chase someone who can’t see your value

By the end of this episode, you’ll understand EXACTLY how to command respect, embrace your sensitivity (instead of seeing it as a weakness), and make choices that light you up from the inside out—without apologizing for it!

So homie, if you’ve ever wondered how to get off the cycle of seeking approval, why you keep feeling small around “breadcrumb” relationships (romantic, work, or family), or just need to be reminded what REAL self-worth looks and feels like…this one’s for you.

No more shrinking. No more dimming your light. It’s time to be the hero of your own damn life!


Chapter Titles:
[00:00] Put Yourself First in Dating
[10:19] Marilyn-Style Transformation Magic
[15:12] Dating Jitters and Self-Reflection
[23:21] Handling Triggers in Three Steps
[34:22] Finding Your Unique Style Vibe
[41:53] Choosing Better by Knowing Your Worth
[44:39] Hidden Feelings, Tense Bodies
[50:48] Owning My Brand Name
[59:32] Balancing Compassion and Self-Care



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