"Be Un-F*ck-Withable!" 5 Ways to Become DANGEROUSLY confident & Command Respect | Leila Hormozi

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There comes a moment when you’re just done.
Done being talked over.
Done second-guessing yourself.
Done knowing you’re capable of more… but not feeling confident enough to actually take it.

That’s exactly why I sat down with Leila Hormozi.

Because Leila didn’t wake up confident. She built it — brick by brick — through action, discomfort, and radical self-respect. And in this episode, she breaks down the exact frameworks she used to go from feeling small and underestimated to being completely unfuckwithable.

This conversation isn’t about hype or fake confidence.

It’s about how confidence is actually built, why most women get it backwards, and what to do when fear, guilt, and self-doubt show up anyway.

If you’re ready to stop shrinking and start commanding respect… this episode is your blueprint.

Here’s exactly what we dive into:

Why confidence comes after action — not before

The 4 C’s framework that turns fear into self-trust

How to stop believing the fake narratives your brain creates

The difference between discomfort and suffering (and why it matters)

Why self-respect is a system — not a feeling

The quiet behaviors that make people respect you instantly

Chapter Titles
[00:00:00] The 4 C’s: How Confidence Is Actually Built
[00:11:04] Track the Truth, Not Your Mood
[00:15:28] How to Stay in the “Swamp” Without Quitting
[00:19:14] Discomfort vs Suffering — Know the Difference
[00:32:52] Measure People by What They Cost You
[00:44:02] Boundaries, Guilt, and Keeping Your Word to Yourself
[00:52:58] Why High-Respect People Don’t Argue
[01:02:59] Quiet Confidence vs Loud Reactions
[01:09:32] What a Confident Woman Actually Does

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