🔴The Narcissist Took You for Granted, They Only Noticed Your Worth After Losing You

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The Narcissist never anticipated that you would be really done with them. If you are at that place in your life where you're truly done with them, where you don't want nothing more to do with them—it’s completely over—you know exactly the feeling of liberation I am talking about. But for them? It is a shock to their system.
They may have been the one that cheated on you, discarded you, or ran off to a new Supply or done whatever cruel thing to you, but deep down, in their arrogant subconscious, they always anticipated that you would never give up. They believed there would always be a gap in the door, a cracked window, just enough space for them to slide back into your life whenever they felt like it. They never thought that you'd have it in you to door slam, bolt, and weld it shut, you know. They never, they never thought that you would have that strength in you.
I'm telling you, they always thought, "I can run out on them, I can cheat on them, I can go to this new Supply, and if the things with the new Supply don't work out, I've got my safety net. I’ve got someone I can fall back on." This is their mindset. In their distorted reality, they think they own you. They act as if they have a lifetime subscription to your energy, your love, and your resources. They believe they are never truly done with us, okay?
But one thing that is apparent is how much they took us for granted. You know, they really did take us for granted. And we need to understand why. Professional psychologists often refer to this as a lack of "object constancy" combined with extreme entitlement. To them, people are like appliances—like a toaster. When they need toast, they expect the toaster to work. When they aren't hungry, they shove the toaster in the cupboard and forget it exists. They don't wonder how the toaster is feeling.
Think back to everything we’d done for them. They were often at their lowest when we met them. Sometimes they were at their absolute rock bottom; in some of our cases, they were broken, financially ruined, or emotionally unstable, and we pieced them back together. We became the architects of their stability. We helped them out. They may have been sick, and we visited them in the hospital, sitting by their bedside for hours. We may have lent them money, fixed their resumes, or managed their chaotic family lives. We really helped them, you know, and it was not reciprocated. It was just taken for granted.
I'm telling you, they just took us for granted because they lack the emotional empathy to appreciate sacrifice. They just took us as, "Oh, this person's going to do a, b, and c for me and I'm going to soak it up, and this is what their purpose on Earth is: to support my needs." That's the way they viewed us, you know. We're there on Earth to support their needs, to do what they need, to make them feel comfortable, someone to rely on. That's what they think our makeup and our existence on this Earth is about, you know. They view Empaths as service providers, not as human beings with souls.

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