What Should I Do When Other Parents Host Wild Parties? | Episode

Your teen wants to go to a party—but what if there’s drinking? And what if the cops show up? In this episode, Lisa and Reena take on the tough realities of teenage parties, underage drinking, and how parents can navigate these high-stakes situations. Should you call the host parents? What happens if the police arrive? Could your teen get arrested? Lisa shares how to have open, judgment-free conversations so your child feels safe coming to you—no matter what. Plus, practical strategies to help teens think ahead, make smart choices, and handle peer pressure in the moment.

Don’t miss this essential conversation that every parent of a tween or teen needs to hear.

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The advice provided on this podcast does not constitute or serve as a substitute for professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention.
If you have concerns about your child’s well being, consult a physician or mental health professional.
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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction
00:37 - Letter: Should I let my teen go to the party?
01:42 - Why do some parents allow underage drinking?
03:12 - Could you be held responsible? Understanding your liability
07:59 - Helping teens make smart choices under pressure
09:49 - Should you confront parents who host drinking parties?
12:53 - What if the cops show up? What parents & teens need to know
15:07 - Can schools do anything about underage drinking?
17:20 - Your teen might feel stuck, too—here’s how to help
20:31 - Parenting to Go: The one promise to make to your child
21:31 - Next Episode: Dr. Ethan Kross, author of "Shift"

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Episode Keywords: teen parties, underage drinking, parenting teens, teen safety, parent liability, hot cognition, cold cognition, teen relationships, school involvement, party rules, peer pressure, social hosting laws

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