Anxious in Love, Avoidant in Parenting | Therapists Tehrina & Joel

Your romantic partner gets the best of you — while your kids get what’s left of you. Sound familiar? Click the link below to get your free guide for parents!
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✨ In this video, licensed therapists Tehrina & Joel explain the hidden dynamic of being anxious in love but avoidant in parenting. You’ll learn why this happens, how it impacts children, and most importantly, practical steps to change the pattern and start raising secure kids.

Even if you don’t have children, this video will help you understand how attachment wounds show up differently across relationships — romantic, parenting, and beyond.

🔷 In this video, you’ll discover:
🔹 Why you can be anxious with your partner but avoidant with your kids
🔹 Concrete examples of how this pattern shows up in daily life
🔹 The impact on children’s attachment styles (emotional invisibility & parentification)
🔹 6 practical steps to shift your energy from romance-first to balanced parenting
🔹 How to repair with your children — no matter their age
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✨ Healing anxious attachment ✨ Creating secure relationships ✨ Breaking family cycles ✨
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🕒 Chapters:
00:00 Intro
02:22 Why This Happens - The Attachment Paradox
04:09 What It Looks Like
08:03 Impact On Children
09:59 How To Change The Pattern
12:45 Healing For Both Parent And Child
14:11 The Science of Generational Attachment Patterns
15:33 Let's Get To The Heart Of It

#BreakingGenerationalCycles #Parenting #EmotionalIntelligence #AttachmentStyles #ChildhoodTrauma #SecureAttachment #Attachment #HealingJourney #Communication #ConflictResolution #HealthyRelationships #AttachmentHealing
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