Provider Husband, Miserable Home

If you earn good money, don’t cheat, go to Mass… and your wife still seems miserable at home, this case study is for you.

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In this episode:

🔥 Why “I’m a good provider” is not enough for a Catholic husband
🧠 How habit, porn and passivity quietly destroy respect and attraction
🏠 Reordering work and home without quitting your job or going soft
🙏 Cleaning up secret sins and rebuilding spiritual leadership in practice
❤️ How to move from man-child / mother dynamic to husband / wife again
📋 A simple weekly checklist to start changing your marriage now

Chapters
0:00 Introduction - The Provider Husband Problem
0:42 Mark's Story - The Case Study Begins
1:32 What Mark's Home Life Looked Like
2:28 The Wrong System - Why Providing Isn't Enough
3:42 Catholic Teaching on Headship
4:42 The Victim Story - Mapping Mark's Week
6:12 Step 1: Repentance and Reordering Loves
8:12 Step 2: Three Concrete Changes
10:42 Step 3: Cleaning Up the Secret Rot (Porn)
13:42 Step 4: Leading at Home Like You Lead at Work
16:12 Rebuilding Friendship with Your Wife
18:12 Mark's Results After One Year
19:12 Your 7-Day Checklist
20:42 Closing