How to Reduce Anxiety Without Avoiding Everything Hard

DAY 5 of the Stop the Spiral Challenge 🔥

Today we’re talking about the fear spiral almost no one admits out loud —
the “What if…?” spiral.

“What if my child falls behind?”
“What if I ruined them?”
“What if something terrible happens?”
“What if I can’t hold it all together?”

Culture gives us two unhelpful answers:
1️⃣ “Eh, that’ll never happen, don’t worry about it.”
2️⃣ “You’re anxious, poor you — avoid anything that feels hard.”

Both keep you small.
Both keep you scared.
Both keep you spiraling.

But there’s a third way.
A leadership mindset that says:

👉 “What if? … So what. If that happened, here’s what I would do.”
👉 Face the fear.
👉 Make a plan.
👉 Become the person who could handle it.

In this session, you’ll learn:
✨ Why minimizing or coddling anxiety doesn’t actually help
✨ The mindset shift that breaks catastrophic thinking
✨ The 3 tools to stop “future fear spirals”
✨ How to turn worst-case scenarios into leadership plans
✨ How to build the identity of a parent who can handle ANYTHING

This is not about ignoring fear.
It’s about becoming stronger than it.

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COMMENT BELOW:

💬 What’s ONE “What if…?” fear your brain loves to replay?
Then write your 3-step “If that happened, here’s what I’d do” plan.

Let’s stop spiraling.
Let’s start leading.
You’ve got this. 💛