How To Acquire SelfControl

We know what self-control is.

Last week’s video reviewed what happens if you lack it.
In today’s episode, we’ll explore how to acquire, maintain, and grow in self-control through the principles found in Proverbs, 1 Corinthians 9, and John 10:10 that show us why self-control is protection, not punishment, and how discipline helps us walk in freedom and Kingdom purpose.

Take notes, reflect deeply, and discover how to strengthen your character and leadership impact through Spirit-led self-control.

Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro: Why self-control matters for leaders
00:05 – Review: What happens when you lack self-control
00:11 – Today’s focus: How to acquire self-control
00:16 – Proverbs breakdown: Six categories of wisdom
00:22 – The power of self-control in life and leadership
00:34 – Areas where we need control: habits, time, relationships
00:48 – Key 1: Focus on the goal, not the grind
01:22 – The biblical perspective: 1 Corinthians 9:25
01:50 – The athlete’s example of self-discipline
02:19 – How focusing on God’s long-term goals strengthens control
03:33 – Laurie Beth Jones: “You will never possess what you’re unwilling to pursue”
04:16 – Strategy beats trying: plan your growth in self-control
04:54 – Key 2: Self-control is protection, not punishment
05:06 – Jesus’ promise of abundant life (John 10:10)
05:25 – How discipline protects your health, money, and influence
06:06 – Real-life consequences of lost control
06:31 – God’s correction = divine protection
07:06 – Lesson from the teacher: “You choose your actions, not your consequences”
07:51 – The principle of the stick: every choice has two ends
08:15 – Choosing to live under God’s protection
08:26 – Key 3: Build systems that maintain self-control
08:40 – The power of accountability partners
09:33 – Avoiding isolation and embracing community
10:24 – 1 Corinthians 10:13 — God always provides a way out of temptation
10:57 – Acting before temptation overtakes you
11:30 – Final encouragement: practice self-control for Kingdom impact

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