You don't need him... you need to be alone

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You don’t need him—you need to be alone. Not because being alone is easy, but because it’s honest. If someone is hurting you—emotionally, verbally, or even through subtle manipulation or neglect—that’s not love. That’s a wound being reopened over and over again. And every time you stay, hoping for change or clinging to the good moments, you abandon a part of yourself. If you’re wondering “Should I be alone?”, the answer might already live in the quiet ache you feel when your needs are ignored, your heart is dismissed, or your intuition tells you this isn’t right. Being alone isn’t the problem—it’s the part of you that believes you need to suffer in love to be worthy of it.

When you're fresh out of a painful relationship, the instinct to fill the void is strong. But the truth is, healing doesn’t happen in distraction. Healing happens in solitude. If you’re asking how to be alone after a breakup, start by giving yourself permission to grieve—not just the relationship, but the version of you who tolerated less than she deserved. You need to be alone long enough to hear your own voice again. Long enough to remember who you are without bending yourself to keep someone else. That’s how you start becoming okay with being alone. You learn to meet your own needs, regulate your nervous system, and stop outsourcing your worth to someone who never really saw you.

Real peace begins when you stop running from solitude and start using it as medicine. How to be alone and happy isn't about forcing joy or pretending you don’t miss them. It’s about choosing yourself even when it’s hard. It's allowing the silence to teach you, to rebuild you, to reconnect you to your truth. The love you’re looking for? It starts here. In this space. In the stillness that shows you: you were never too much—you were just trying to be enough for someone who couldn’t meet you. You don’t need him to feel whole. You need to be alone, so you can finally come home to yourself.


In my years as a self love coach, I’ve guided my clients from every possible heartbreaking scenario and breakup, and given them the tools they need to heal their trauma and learn the discipline of self love, so they can embody their most true, authentic and confident self!

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