The 3 Levels of Active Listening: Being Stuck AT level 1 Why She Doesn't Feel Heard (Men's Guidance)

This video is for men who are ready to do the work. My intention is to inspire a path of accountability and responsibility, starting with one of the most fundamental skills we possess: listening.

Like many of you, I used to think I was a good listener. But the truth is, I was just waiting for my turn to speak. I was stuck in my own ego, thinking my thoughts were more important than the other person's words. In the last two years, I've had to learn the hard way what active listening truly means.

This isn't just about better conversation; it's about building trust, deepening connection, and ultimately, mastering yourself.

In this video, I break down the three levels of listening, from simple hearing to deep, somatic presence. We also dive into the crucial difference in how we listen to the feminine, and why your defensiveness is killing your connection.

Key Takeaways:

Level 1: The ego-driven state of hearing to respond, not to understand.

Level 2: The selfless shift to genuine curiosity and attention.

Level 3: The alchemical state of reading body language, vibration, and what is not being said.

The power of holding space for a woman without needing to fix or defend.

True listening is an act of devotion. It's time to get off the floor and actually get to know the person in front of you.

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 - Honest Reflection: My Journey with Listening

0:35 - What is Active Listening? The Goal

1:15 - Level 1: Hearing to Respond (The Ego Trap)

2:00 - Level 2: Genuine Effort & Selflessness

2:40 - Level 3: The Somatic & Alchemical Approach

3:30 - The Key: Listening to the Feminine

4:10 - Dropping Your Defenses (There's Nothing to Fix)

5:25 - The Result: Comprehension & Connection

5:55 - Take the Next Step: Work with Me

CONNECT & WORK WITH ME:

If you're a man ready to commit to this level of inner work, I invite you to join me. Let's build a foundation of true accountability.

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