Autism Tantrums Explained: Attention, Escape, and Sensory Meltdowns

Autism Tantrums Explained: Attention, Escape, and Sensory Meltdowns

Is your child with autism having frequent tantrums or meltdowns and you're not sure why?
In this video, I break down the three most common types of tantrums in children with autism and give you real strategies for how to respond based on the function —or "WHY"— behind the behavior.

We’ll cover:
✅ Attention-Seeking Tantrums
✅ Escape or Task Avoidance Tantrums
✅ Sensory-Based Meltdowns
…and even the tricky combo tantrums that blend multiple triggers.

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Whether you’re navigating tantrums in public, at home, or during homework, you’ll find practical ABA-based tips to reduce stress for you and your child.

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What kind of tantrum do you see most often with your child? Let’s learn from each other!

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⏱️ Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro: Why Understanding Tantrums Matters
00:47 - Attention-Seeking Tantrums: What They Look Like
01:10 - Why Attention Behaviors Happen
01:54 - Real-Life Example: Getting Attention in the Car
03:42 - What To Do: Planned Ignoring & Replacement Behavior
05:10 - Catch Them Being Good: The Power of Positive Attention
06:50 - Escape & Task Avoidance Tantrums Explained
07:39 - Tools That Help: Visual Timers & First-Then Schedules
09:38 - Handling Homework: Break Tasks Down
10:50 - The Key: Don’t Let the Tantrum Avoid the Task
12:34 - Sensory-Based Tantrums: The Most Misunderstood
14:00 - What Helps: Sensory Toolkits & Quiet Spaces
15:15 - Functional Language: Teaching “I need a break”
16:40 - Combo Tantrums: Multiple Triggers in One
18:08 - Using the A-B-C Chart to Understand Behavior
19:17 - How to Fill Out the ABC Chart for Best Results
22:05 - FREE ABC Chart Download
22:12 - Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts on Supporting Your Child

👋 Thanks for watching!

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Disclaimer: Content here is for general guidance and not a substitute for individualized professional advice. Please consult with a licensed provider, BCBA, or autism specialist for support tailored to your specific needs.