I'm 80... Here Are 5 Things I Wasted My Entire Life On (My Biggest Regrets)

I'm 80 years old, and I spent most of my life on things that don't matter anymore.

This isn't about one dramatic moment or a single regret. It's about five things I devoted decades to — worrying what strangers thought, holding grudges that hurt no one but myself, staying late at a job I didn't care about, chasing possessions that ended up in a donation pile, and staying quiet when I should have been honest.

I talk about my brother, my wife Carol, my daughter, the office where I spent 40 years, and the house I thought would make me happy. I talk about time — how I assumed there would always be more of it, and how wrong I was.

This is the story of small choices that seemed harmless at the time but added up to a life I barely recognize. It's not a lesson or a lecture. It's just the truth from someone who's running out of time to tell it.

If any of this felt familiar, I'd be grateful to hear your thoughts in the comments. I read every one.

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