Episode 4: Full-Time Stepmum Life: Jealousy, Resentment & Building Real Friendship

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Episode Summary


In this episode, Katie talks to Rose* (not her real name), a full-time stepmum to a 13-year-old girl. Rose shares openly about the jealousy and resentment she felt in the early days, the challenges of living with a “Disney Dad,” and the emotional work it took to reach a place where she and her stepdaughter now have a close, genuine friendship.


This is an honest, relatable conversation for any stepmum who has ever struggled with being full-time, feeling resentful, losing themselves in the role, or wondering if things will ever feel easier.


In This Episode We Explore

• What it’s really like to be a full-time stepmum
• Early jealousy, resentment and emotional overwhelm
• The impact of a partner “Disney Dadding”
• Feeling unsure of your place in the home
• How resentment can build when you’re doing the day-to-day work
• The pressure to be patient, understanding and endlessly flexible
• Bonding slowly with a stepdaughter
• What helped Rose and her stepdaughter grow into friendship
• Why these challenges are so common for stepmums

These themes reflect the most common things stepmums search for when they’re feeling lost, overwhelmed or unsupported.


If This Resonates
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Who This Episode Is For

• Full-time stepmums
• Stepmums dealing with resentment, jealousy or guilt
• Anyone struggling with bonding or connection
• Women navigating “Disney Dad” dynamics
• Stepmums feeling overwhelmed or unseen
• Listeners looking for honest, real stepmum stories

Helpful Links
Stepmum Space website: https://stepmumspace.com

Instagram: @stepmumspace
1:1 Coaching & Couples Coaching: https://stepmumspace.com




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