The Freedom Worth Living For

In this video from the October 2019 Art of Loving Fiercely intensive in New York, John speaks to how to honor the Masculine yearning for freedom while in a loving monogamous relationship. He states, "The only freedom we can truly rely on is the freedom of infinite consciousness and the freedom of liberating love."

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The pain in the Feminine heart comes from the yearning to be known, felt and ravished deeply. The pain in the Masculine heart comes from the yearning to be free of demand.

So if you want a Masculine human being as a partner, chances are that relationship will be less important to them than you. It's not that they don't love you; it's that it literally takes work for them to step into relationship.

The Masculine yearning for freedom becomes a problem because of the way in which most people go about taking it, which is often by disconnecting, zoning out, and disappearing unconsciously. Most Masculine beings will chase freedom, thinking that if they get enough money, time, space, recognition, success etc., they will be free. What they realize as they up-level spiritually and emotionally is that the ultimate freedom is in resting as the infinite nature of this moment, which is why meditation is so pleasurable to a Masculine being.

Because most Masculine beings have not been trained how to negotiate the path of relationship and true freedom, it can become a deep challenge. As a result, they will fall into habits of compromising their freedom in ways that don't feel good for relationship. A Masculine being can love passionately, fully, and completely, while also being nourished by true freedom. It's hard work, which is why most people don't do it.

The Masculine's work is to artfully own the truth of their heart's yearning for freedom and solitude, and then negotiate a conscious structure to hold their Feminine partner. For example, "My love, I am only available 3 days a week, but I will love you and be 100% there for you those 3 days. The rest of the time, I need to meditate, work, and do what I'm here to do in the world before I die." If you own that truth, especially the freedom that brings you closer to the Divine, this will often feel good to the Feminine. Even zoning out, if owned consciously, can become acceptable to your partner.

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