The PhD System Runs on Shame. Here’s How to Break It
Автор: R3ciprocity.com-Prof David Maslach
Загружено: 2025-12-03
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If you ever do a PhD, there is one feeling that almost never leaves you.
“I am behind.”
“I am slow.”
“I’m not that good.”
And the entire infrastructure seems to reinforce it.
The program.
The tenure system.
Sometimes even your colleagues.
There is this quiet story that you are a mistake. That you shouldn’t be here.
So here is my ask.
Be the broken link in that chain.
The old logic says pressure will fix people. That if you tell them they are behind, they will get motivated. That fear will sharpen them.
That is not how humans work.
When people are told they are a problem, they crack.
They shut down.
Or they run.
The fastest way to change that is simple.
Tell someone they are doing okay.
Tell them they are on track.
Tell them they are not a screw-up.
Tell them you believe in the big, strange thing in their head.
Almost everyone already thinks they are failing.
Be the person who says, “You are an incredible human being. And you are exactly where you should be.”
You will be shocked how much changes.
In them.
And in you.
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