What Can Christians Really Do In The Bedroom?

Christian perspectives on physical intimacy often lack clarity, leaving many couples confused about what honors God in the bedroom - especially if one or both partners are survivors of harm. True intimacy begins with friendship and mutual respect, creating space for honest communication about desires, boundaries, and healing.

In this episode we explore:

What's permissible
How technology has changed how we approach intimacy
Sexual abuse survivors needs
The full spectrum of intimacy not just intercourse
Arousal templates
Consent
What healthy intimacy entails

Resources Mentioned:
The Marriage You Want - by Sheila & Keith Gregoire - https://amzn.to/46ug2cH
Body & Soul, Healed & Whole - by Tabitha Westbrook - https://amzn.to/4pA4s8I
Gottman Sound Relationship House - https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-...

0:00 What's Allowed in the Christian Bedroom?
5:46 Intimacy Beyond Intercourse
9:58 Understanding Your Arousal Template
16:24 Communication and Consent Matter
24:15 Discernment Over Permission
31:09 Building Healthy Intimacy Together

#ChristianSexuality #ChristianDating #healthysexuality

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