Is It Always the Husband’s Fault? – My Honest Catholic Answer

Feeling like everything in your marriage is your fault… money’s a mess… and you’re scared to lead in case she calls you “abusive”?

In this Sunday Q&A I answer your hardest questions from this week’s comments:

🙏 Are women “perfect” in my videos and is it always the husband’s fault? (@Roman-Labrador)
💸 What if money, kids and exhaustion leave you in a fog with no plan? (@MattKyleBullerthemattkylefiles)
💍 Are single Catholic men right to avoid marriage until their finances are perfect? (@amytheoptimist)
⚔️ Can a Catholic husband ever use “force” in marriage – and what does that even mean? (@Fheflan11)

I’ll show you how Catholic moral theology, spiritual combat and solid psychology all fit together so you can:

💪 Take responsibility without becoming a doormat
🧠 Clear the financial fog and build a simple plan
❤️ Lead your wife without fear of the “abuse” label
✝️ Fight your dragons as a man under Christ, not a victim of your circumstances

If something hits you in this video, drop a comment with your situation. I read them all and use them to shape future episodes.

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Chapters
00:00 - Introduction & Overview
00:25 - Money, Blame, and Headship in Marriage
00:52 - Is It Always the Man's Fault?
01:52 - The Husband's Responsibility & Headship
03:46 - Addressing Financial Shame and Money Fog
06:22 - Practical Steps to Overcome Money Fog
12:21 - Single Men Avoiding Marriage Due to Money
12:40 - The Catholic View on Marriage & Financial Readiness
13:40 - When Is It Right for a Husband to Use Force?
15:13 - Authority, Consequences, and Catholic Headship
17:51 - Weekly Examine for Husbands
19:00 - Community Invitation & Closing Thoughts