The Avoidant Thought You’d Never Leave… Now They’re OBSESSING & Watching You Nonstop | Megan Weks

In this powerful analysis, we deconstruct the profound psychological shock an avoidant person experiences when the partner they assumed would never leave finally walks away. This isn't about love; it's about a shattered illusion of control. We break down exactly why they become obsessively consumed with monitoring your every move after the breakup—and, crucially, why their intense obsession changes absolutely nothing about the need for you to stay gone and continue healing.

Timestamps with Emojis:
00:00 🧠 The Catastrophic Assumption
02:15 💥 The Shock of Your Departure
05:40 🔍 Obsession as a Crisis Response
08:10 📱 How the Monitoring Manifests (Social Media, Tech, Friends)
11:30 🚗 Physical Proximity & "Accidental" Encounters
13:50 🔁 Constant Re-Analysis of Your Last Words
15:45 🧩 What DRIVES the Compulsive Watching
18:30 ⚖️ Why Their Obsession Changes NOTHING
22:10 🛡️ Protecting Your Peace & Moving Forward
25:00 💡 Final Truth: Your Reasons Remain Valid

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This content is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a psychological condition or relationship dynamic.