Why Asking “What’s This?” Often Backfires With Late Talkers

If your toddler isn’t talking much yet, you may have found yourself asking, “What’s this?” — hoping to hear a word.

But for many late talkers, that well-intentioned question quietly shuts things down.

In this episode, Erin Hyer — speech-language pathologist with over 35 years of clinical and real-life experience — explains why asking for words too early can work against development, and what actually helps toddlers feel ready to communicate.

You’ll learn:
Why silence doesn’t mean your child won’t talk — just that the foundations are still forming

The difference between testing and participating in early communication

The five key areas that support speech before words appear

How attention, imitation, play, daily rhythms, and nervous system regulation all shape language development

This episode isn’t about doing more or pushing harder.

It’s about creating the conditions that make communication feel safe, interesting, and worth the effort.

🎧 You’ll also hear a simple metaphor that reframes speech development — and reminds parents why patience, presence, and trust matter more than pressure.

📥 Free resource mentioned:
The Top 10 Essential Skills Every Baby Needs Before Talking
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👉 DISCOVERY CALLS
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There’s no pressure and no obligation. January is now open, and you’ll find all the details here:
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Top 10 ESSENTIAL Skills For Talking
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Because the little years are the big years.

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DISCLAIMER:
The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your pediatrician, physician, or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your child's development, health, or well-being. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have seen or heard in this content.
All views and opinions expressed are based on Erin Hyer’s clinical experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique — please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.