How To Become An Authoritative Coach

Mastering Authority in Coaching with Chris Marr

In this episode of The Coaching Clinic, hosts Angie and John welcome their first-ever guest, Chris Marr, author of 'The Authoritative Coach.' They dive into what it means to be an authoritative coach, debunking common misconceptions around the term 'authority' in coaching. Chris shares insights on developing expertise without letting ego interfere, overcoming people-pleasing tendencies, and balancing coaching with consultation. They also discuss the importance of challenging clients constructively for genuine growth and success. Chris emphasises the need for setting boundaries, intentionality, and the continuous pursuit of skill development for coaches. This conversation provides practical tips and deep insights for both new and experienced coaches looking to enhance their practice.

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage
00:36 Welcoming the Expert Guest: Chris Marr
01:22 Defining the Authoritative Coach
03:04 Personal Challenges and Lessons Learned
04:42 The Importance of Self-Respect in Coaching
06:36 Avoiding the Hero Complex in Coaching
21:05 Balancing Coaching and Consulting
23:50 Navigating Client Relationships
24:30 Consulting Mode vs. Coaching Mode
25:00 Evolving Perspectives on Coaching
25:47 Contradictions in Communication
26:22 Pre-Framing Coaching Sessions
26:38 Determining the Value of Coaching
28:00 The Vanguard Principle
31:33 Raising the Stakes
33:13 Radical Candour in Coaching
41:41 Signs of Coaching Success
44:37 Conclusion and Resources