But They’re Your Blood, That’s How Survivors Stay Silent.- Sury Fish LCSW - S2 EP5

Sury Fish is a licensed counselor and social worker who specializes in psychotherapy and psychodrama. She works closely with survivors of family trauma and abuse, guiding them with compassion and depth. Her approach helps people not only find strength after pain but learn how to create light within the tunnel itself.

0:00 – Intro: The hidden trauma of inc*st
2:24 – Meet Sury Fish – Therapist specializing in incest survivors
3:03 – How common is this really? (It’s in every community)
5:59 – What drives abusers? Control, addiction, opportunity & family secrecy
8:36 – When the protector becomes the abuser – The core wound
12:20 – Living with constant triggers: Family = trauma source
17:22 – Shame, privacy vs. secrecy – Why survivors carry the shame
21:32 – Family denial & protecting the abuser instead of the child
26:50 – The body keeps the score – Physical & chronic illness links
30:32 – Boys vs. girls, men vs. women abusers – The differences
38:27 – Betrayal trauma & spiritual wounding
41:15 – The lies abusers tell & the lies survivors tell themselves
43:47 – Intro to Psychodrama – What it actually is
50:18 – Live psychodrama demo (positive role-reversal with father/daughter)
55:25 – How psychodrama heals betrayal, shame & lost connection to Hashem
1:00:28 – Why survivors speak out – Breaking the silence is the medicine
1:06:15 – Can you ever fully heal? (The honest answer)
1:09:40 – Intimacy, marriage & healing as a couple
1:16:08 – Forgiveness: Necessary or not?
1:21:02 – Message to families in denial who choose the abuser over the child
1:24:23 – Final message to survivors: You are not broken. Healing is real.




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