Why Secure Attachment Feels Boring Before It Feels Safe

In this Livestream, Adam Lane Smith the Attachment Specialist explains why secure relationships can feel boring at the start before feeling safe. Adam details the insecure attachment dating practices that lead to struggle and breakups eventually, and why secure people refuse to engage in insecure dating behaviors. Then Adam explains how secure attachment looks and operates during the dating process and why waiting for a spark or stimulation is an indicator of lack of compatibility for secure connection. Adam also gives examples of secure attachment conversations for the first few dates and demonstrates how secure attachment forms in a healthy romantic couple.

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