🔴Once the Narcissist Realizes You’re The One That Got Away, They Turn Into a Lifelong Unwanted Fan

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Now, let us delve directly into the core topic of this video. We are here to discuss a specific, profound dynamic that is often misunderstood: a specific type of Supply that the Narcissist will invariably remember as “The one that got away.”
This isn't about romanticizing the Narcissist’s feelings. This isn't about them missing "you" as a person. It is about a shift in power. This particular Supply holds a unique, albeit twisted, significance in the Narcissist's memory bank. To understand this, we have to first look at the landscape of the Narcissist’s world through the lens of modern psychology.
It is important to understand that not all supplies are created equal. In the realm of modern psychology, the Narcissist views people not as human beings with autonomy, feelings, or rights, but as appliances—objects to be used for a specific function.
I want you to really visualize this metaphor. Just as you have a toaster to make toast and a fridge to keep things cold, the Narcissist has people to provide validation, money, sex, status, or to serve as emotional punching bags. When a toaster breaks, you don’t mourn the toaster; you get annoyed that you can’t have your toast. You might kick it, shake it, or eventually throw it out and buy a new one. This is exactly how the Narcissist views their relationships.
This distinction is crucial because the Narcissist actively seeks a specific tier of Supply whom they can manipulate into a parental role, abuse, and exploit. They rely on this Supply's unwavering loyalty, high empathy, and capacity for forgiveness. They are looking for a "high-functioning" appliance.
However, what demands our utmost attention today is the existence of a Supply in a Narcissist's life who ultimately flips the script—the person who performs a final, irrevocable discard and never returns. The Narcissist never truly forgets this Supply. Consequently, this individual will perpetually be regarded by the Narcissist as an "unwanted fan" throughout their life—though, ironically, they become the fan of you.
When a Narcissist is in the process of selecting a new Supply, they are often specifically seeking the kind of individual we are discussing today, and that individual might very well be you, the viewer. You were likely the one who consistently supported the Narcissist, demonstrating unwavering loyalty even when it was not reciprocated.
Let’s paint a picture of what this looked like. You were the "fixer." You were the "adult in the room." You were the one who managed the chaos they created. When they had financial trouble, you were the safety net, perhaps paying off their debts or covering rent. When they had conflicts at work due to their own arrogance, you were the emotional counselor, soothing their bruised ego. You tolerated abuse and mistreatment, enduring disrespect in situations where it was entirely unnecessary.

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