Why Nobody Shows Up for You

You ever notice the people who ask the most from you are the ones who do the least for you? Yeah. Same.

This video is me calling myself out—because the hard truth is, sometimes it’s not just that people are selfish…it’s that we trained them to be. I used to say yes to everything, refuse help when it was offered, and then sit there pissed when nobody showed up for me. Sound familiar?

Here’s what we get into:
• Why “being useful” isn’t the same as being valued
• The trap of saying yes when you don’t mean it
• How refusing help builds silence around you
• The difference between being wanted and just being needed
• The brutal truth I had to face about why people never showed up for me

If this hits, drop a comment. Tell me the last time you actually let someone help you—or the last time you realized you weren’t letting them. And yeah, hit the like button if you’ve been there, because I know I’m not the only one.

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⏰Chapters:⏰
00:00 Introduction: The Burden of Helping Others
00:33 Realization: The Fear of Saying No
00:47 Resentment: Feeling Unappreciated
01:28 Self-Reflection: Creating Takers
02:02 Examples: Teaching People Not to Help
03:11 Epiphany: The Brutal Truth
05:17 Conclusion: Accepting Help and Changing Mindsets