Do Women REALLY Get The Men They Deserve? - Shelah Marie - Ep 445

This week, we sit down with the beautiful Shelah Marie — actress, author of Unruly, and founder of the Curvy, Curly, Conscious Movement — to talk about womanhood, healing, and what it really means to “deserve” the relationships we’re in.

Mandii, Weezy and Shelah unpack the viral “you get the partner you deserve” clip from The Breakfast Club, and things get deep. From discussing abusive relationships and accountability, to the privilege of therapy, this episode gets real about healing, trauma, and power.

We also dive into Cardi B’s online backlash, Ayesha Curry’s interviews about attention and marriage, and why Black women need softness and grace — not judgment. Plus, a little fun on pick-me energy, threesomes, and Super Bowl code words (you’ll know it when you hear it).

If you love open, unfiltered conversations about love, identity, and womanhood — this is your episode.

00:00:00 Intro & Shelah Marie joins the show
00:05:54 “You get the relationship you deserve” debate
00:14:27 Abuse, accountability & therapy privilege
00:19:03 Cardi B, Crissle & the softness conversation
00:24:00 Truth or Dare: marriage, sex & pick-me reflections
00:33:00 Threesomes, attraction & boundary talk
00:43:40 Ayesha Curry, Michelle Obama & public relationship backlash
00:50:10 Oversharing vs protecting your partner
00:55:02 Unruly book, body freedom & retreats for Black women
01:01:26 Outro & Horrible Decisions Patreon plug

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