Boomeranging: How To Give Yourself The Best Chance of Leaving & Staying Gone

It's common for folks to desperately find their way to get away from a toxic relationship. Then, the doubts start, as well as the pleading and promises from a toxic, emotionally abusive spouse.
You need insights into how to plan to leave so that you won't give in to the temptation to return. Join in!

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

Boomeranging happens often: leaving an abusive relationship and then going back
How to stop the cycle of leaving and returning to a #narcissist, a #Hijackal, an #abuser
Why you second-guess your decision to leave once the stress of leaving is relieved
How to keep moving forward once you've left a toxic relationship
8 reasons you give yourself for going back to a toxic relationship
7 things to do to set yourself straight and not go back

You're in a toxic relationship with a partner or parent. You know it's abusive. You leave. You return. You're upset with yourself. Let's stop that cycle!

And, if you have left, what to do when you want to go running back to the abuse.

Yes, you're leaving a toxic person, a #Hijackal, because they are emotionally abusive. You may not want to think of it as abuse, but that's what it is.

Oxford dictionary:
abuse: use to bad effect or for a bad purpose; misuse. pervert, take advantage of
treat a person with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly

Emotional abuse is difficult to see when it's happening to you, but you sure know how it feels, right? That's what you've walking--or running--away from. Remember that when you're tempted to return.

In this episode, I give you eight things you might be telling yourself to convince yourself to go back once you've left, and seven things you can do to remind yourself why you will not go back. I hope they help you.

Big hugs!

Rhoberta

* Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.

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