Are you being manipulated by sweet words disguising emotional abuse?

Toxic people--emotional manipulators--have an absolute need to win. They NEED to have power over you in order to feel safe in their world. That's their problem. Don't make it yours.

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:
Examples to help you recognize emotional manipulation
Why #Hijackals need to win
Why you need to discard your rose-colored glasses
Dr. Shaler shares some examples of emotional manipulation from her earlier life
Why you need to believe your gut instincts
Why not to override those gut instincts
Seeing the emotional manipulators need to dominate
Strengthen your resolve to step away

To get power over you, Hijackals are masters of emotional manipulation. And, they serve it up two ways: smooth or aggressive. Smooth approaches catch you off guard because you so want to believe them and enjoy the love and peace. Aggressive approaches make you fearful and unable to think clearly in the moment. Therefore, masters of manipulation!

Hijackals are always homing their skills of emotional manipulation. If you've had a toxic parent--a #Hijackal parent, you may be so used to the games that you don't notice them at first. After today's episode, you will. Don't spend a second beating yourself up for not seeing it, just pick yourself up, face in a new direction (away), and make some new decisions.

You don't deserve to be the prey of a #Hijackal predator. You need to see emotional manipulation


#emotionalmanipulation #emotionalmanipulators #emotionalabuse #needtodominate #saynotoabuse #believeyourinstincts #listentoyourgut

* Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.

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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.

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