Getting over TRUST ISSUES + VANITY + and the thing we all LIE about | Ep. 20

EP 20 - WHATADO: Vanity, Trust Issues, and Spreading 'Em
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This week Caroline Winkler and Jess Debakey are recording TOGETHER IN THE FLESH, and you'll hear our excitement right away. Yes, we know the sound quality suffered our first time with an in-person setup, but that's why 1) we're constantly saying we're not professionals and 2) our full episodes are posted on YouTube. If you stick around here though, we appreciate you, and we recommend you listen without headphones this week. Take in the chaos while driving or showering or cleaning the house. Force your roommate or partner to listen with you. Or kick out your kids for some solo NFE time.

In this one, we take on another round of WHATADOS (our term meaning listener-submitted questions for which we are unqualified to give advice). First, Caroline gets fired up about a relatable listener who wonders if it's wrong to want to look better to impress other people / for the male gaze. Then, Jess opens up about her ongoing plight to overcome trust issues in relationships.

We also talk about Jess's first time being recognized in public (ily Grace), Caroline's laser hair removal journey, and an oddly specific ick from Jess. The butt strip is the best thing in the whole wide world, and we are each a very different part of Fridays.

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This episode was produced by none other than our prince, Abi Newhouse.

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Contents of this Video
00:00 - Intro
03:05 - Jess is famous
4:14 - Caroline's crush at the gym
7:32 - Whatado questions
11:00 - How to overcome body issues and vanity
15:10 - Why do we all lie about this
19:40 - changing the body image cycle
28:00 - Stop judging yourself for how you feel
31:15 - Someone burned my butthole
38:00 - a sick break
40:00 - how to rebuild trust after betrayal
51:42 - "i don't deserve you"
55:47 - our red flag
56:57 - Jess hates this.
1:00:58 - Caroline loves-hates this.
1:04:15 - crying ourselves to sleep

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Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA

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