Living With Anxiety: Resilience, Exposure, and Tolerating Uncertainty | Anxiety Josh, Being Well

Anxiety is something we all experience from time to time, and because it’s so common it can be easy to take it lightly. But anxiety dominates the lives of many people, and in this episode psychotherapist Joshua Fletcher joins me for an in-depth exploration of anxiety. We talk about the anxiety cycle, moving away from thinking in terms of a “cure,” and the key target of the “willful tolerance of uncertainty.” Josh also shares insights on exposure therapy, managing self-criticism, and developing greater self-awareness.

About our Guest: Joshua Fletcher, also known as ‪@anxietyjosh‬, is a psychotherapist based in Manchester, UK, and the author of several books, including his newest, "and how does that make you feel?" Joshua also co-hosts the podcast "Disordered," and you may have bumped into his content on Tiktok or Instagram, where he has over a quarter million followers.

Key Topics:
0:00 Introduction
3:25 Josh’s first panic attack
10:25 The vicious cycle of threat monitoring
14:25 The three magic words: “just in case”
20:25 The “willful tolerance of uncertainty”
26:35 Exposure therapy
31:30 Working with self-criticism
41:10 Reward, punishment, and trauma
48:00 Identifying our varied inner voices
52:10 Worried voice, false comfort, and wise mind
53:55 Approaching anxiety as a neurodivergent person
58:10 Healthy disenchantment
1:00:15 Recap

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Who Am I: I'm Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (https://amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (https://apple.co/38ufGG0). I'm making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.

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