Relationship Anarchy 101: Consciously created love

When I was putting this video together (for the 5th time 😅), I realized how easy it is to overcomplicate something like relationship anarchy. Not because it’s confusing — but because it touches everything: our identities, our politics, our relationships, and how we define love.

There is so much to share with RA, and I will definitely be making more videos on it. But for keeping this definiton brief, I share 3 foundational principles of RA, why it's not about doing whatever you want, and how you can start thinking more intentionally about your own relationships — queer, polyam, monogamous, whatever they are.

If you’ve ever felt boxed in by traditional relationships, or wanted a more conscious and authentic way to connect — this is for you.

Drop your thoughts in the comments — I love hearing how these ideas land for you.

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00:00 - Intro and quote about RA from Andy Nordgren
00:58 - RA is a lot of my nerdoms
01:52 - My background and education
02:58 - Top three aspects of RA I’m covering in this video
03:48 - What RA isn’t
04:43 - First aspect: RA rejects hierarchy
06:38 - Second aspect: Commitments are customized
07:53 - Third aspect: RA is a philosophy not a rule book
10:10 - Tell me in the comments what questions you have
10:27 - Summarizing the top three aspects of RA
11:41 - More resources from my channel
12:44 - Silly blooper