Securely Loved
LOVE ISN’T BLIND. LOVE IS LEARNED. #midlifemoments
Welcome to Securely Loved, your space for healing attachment wounds and creating stronger, safer, more fulfilling relationships. I’m Bev Mitelman, M.A., Certified Relationship & Attachment Trauma Practitioner with 25+ years in personal growth. I help women, especially in perimenopause and beyond, break toxic relationship cycles, rebuild self-worth, and communicate with confidence in love, parenting, and family life. If you’ve struggled with anxious attachment, dismissive avoidant, or fearful avoidant patterns, you’re not broken, you’re following an old emotional blueprint. Learn how attachment styles impact communication, emotional intimacy, and conflict resolution. Discover tools for nervous system regulation, emotional safety, and breaking generational cycles. Incredible trauma-informed videos to help you build secure attachment and healthy relationships. Free consult & attachment quiz at https://securelyloved.com/.
Do I Need to be Fully Healed to Love Again? Attachment Styles Explained
Hidden Blueprint of Your Attachment Style! #relationships
Insecure Attachment and High Conflict Divorce! #attachmentstyles
Boundaries & Secure Attachment: The Key to Healthy, Lasting Love! #attachmentstyles
Why You People-Please: The Hidden Roots of Codependency and Anxious Attachment #attachmentstyles
Strengthen Your Anxious-Avoidant Love Connection! #attachmentstyles
What Every Midlife Woman Overlooks When Menopause Hits Her Relationships! #attachmenttrauma
Should Love Feel Easy? #attachmentstyles
Why You Get Triggered (and How to Stop!)
Never Felt Safe Love Before? #attachmentstyles
Anxious + Avoidant Relationship Dance: Why the Push–Pull Feels So Intense
Why Dismissive Avoidants Pull Away When Love Gets Real
Why You Crave or Avoid Sex! #dismissiveavoidant
Why Your Attachment Style Matters! #attachmenttheory
It's Not Them ...It's Your Attachment Style!
You're Not Broken - You Just Learned Love Wrong #attachmentstyles
Why Do Some People Avoid Closeness?
Can You Really Improve Your Relationships?
How Couples Therapy Really Works!
How Can Understanding Attachment Styles Transform Your Relationships?
Can Avoidant Men Find Real Love? #dismissiveavoidant
How To Help When He Pulls Away!